Choosing your Destiny

Destiny is something that everyone of us has blamed at one point or the other during our lives.Even i used to do it,but now i have realised something.Everything that happens to us depends on the choices we make.All along the way,fate asks us certain questions.The way we choose decide where we will end up.In the Harry Potter series,Professor Dumbledore once said,

"Remember Cedric. Remember, if the time should come when you have to make a choice between what is right and what is easy, remember what happened to a boy who was good, and kind, and brave, because he strayed across the path of Lord Voldemort. Remember Cedric Diggory."

The important point here is having to make a choice between what is right and what is easy.And this one decision decides what a person will become.There are two ways of living your life.Either you base your decision on what is right for you,what you really want,what will keep you happy.Or you think about the way people will react to your actions and do what you think will please them.

As far as i believe,the first way is the right way o live your life.this way,even if something goes wrong,you can proudly say that you did what you wanted,and you will do your best to work out the tough situations in life,because you have faith in your decision.However,more often than not people choose to live their lives according to the expectations of others.They choose to do what makes others happy,instead of doing what would make them happy.But the moment people choose this path in life,they expose themselves to a very great danger.They will end up compromising in their lives,they will never realise their full potential,sacrificing their happiness,settling for the next best thing when they could have listenedto their hearts and had gone that extra mile to attain total happiness.They'll end up being moderate when they could have achieved greatness.

And then one day,standing in front of the mirror,they'll look into their own eyes,see the sadness hidden in them,and realise where they could have been if they had listened to their hearts instead of listening to others.They will realise this one day and after that day,they'll never be happy again.The make believe world they have created for themselves will come crashing down.But it takes courage to accept this,and most of them wouldnt have that sort of courage in them.

They'll say to themselves that it isn't their fault that they are not happy.Its what destiny had in store for them.Its in their fate that they are unhappy,that they are just lumbering on in life without any motivation.They do not realise that there is a script that dictates their life,but it wasnt written by some unknown hand before they were born.It has been written by themselves,nd its dictated by the choices they have made all along their lives.They chose to do what was easy,and in the end that has made all the difference between true happiness and a meaningless life.Their fate was written by the choices they made,and they chose to become who they are.

What I'm doing here??

I'm gonna start by writing bout me.I'm really confused about life ryt now.I have no idea where i'm headed,what i'm doing here,where is life gonna take me.Nd it feels very strange to be in dis sort of a situation,where you are so out of touch with reality.Total confusion is what describes me right now,nd this is leading me to explore some unknown areas of my life.I'm learning about the spiritual side of my existance,nd i think i might like what i find.I'm trying to go through all the decisions that i took,which have brought me to the place i am in life ryt nw.Nd as soon as i find those reasons,i think i might become a better person than i am ryt nw!